There are times that I’m an avid reader of fetlife and then I’ll go weeks without logging in. There are several reasons to that. If you’ve ever read groups on fetlife, they need to be taken with a grain of salt. I often find that the masses are to politically correct and scared to actually offend anyone by telling them like it is. There are a lot of newbies and a lot of others giving advice when they really have no clue. If you post something and it comes across as the least bit offensive prepare for a massive bashing.
I’ve found that not many people are living together in a 24 / 7 power exchange relationship. Or they claim to be but their definition is soooo different then mine that it’s hard to take anything they say to heart.
So. .. You maybe asking yourself why I visit the site. Lol. It’s kind of like watching Jerry Springer. I watch and read so that i can feel like my life isn’t messed up like the others i read about. There is a lot of gossip. Lol lots of drama and I can only take so much before i hit the X button.
I’m sure there are hidden gems in those massive piles of bullshit and for the chase I find myself logging in.
So if your a virgin to the site. It’s http://www.fetlife.com
You create an account and search groups. There’s a group for EVERY FETISH. I recommend using the site for finding local events where you can actually get out and meet real people. If your solely a bdsm participant online you really aren’t getting the whole picture. Be safe. There are some freaky people out there. Present company excluded. Lol.