In this world we have each other. We have a place to explore our hidden desires, Our hidden wants and needs.
What happens when the anonymity is breached. What happens to our world. The population does not quite understand. Just like the gay community was exiled until acceptance was attained, so it is in our world, Viles world.
Neither vile nor myself have made our life a secret. There are a couple at work who know and my mom. Then we have friends in the community. I wear my collar 24/7. Most people don’t have a clue of the meaning.
So what am I trying to convey? There is a private aspect. The sharing of our inner workings in our relationship in this world of vile, details are given. Details that will hopefully enlighten and help others in the community and in the vanilla setting.
I only hope that my privacy is respected if I get outed. I have not shared Viles blog or my own. There is quite a difference between vanilla knowing that i live an alternative lifestyle and reading about the details. There had beena recent link which I will try and close. There are those on my Masters blog that have followed my previous vanilla blog and there was an overlap of my vanilla blog and Viles blog. Damn. Why did I use my real full name in the vanilla setting? At the time, I had nothing to hide in my vanilla blog. There were no details of my life only poetry and life reflections. But now, there is a huge link if someone were too do a little research and my heart sinks.
My only fear is that my coworkers will find Viles blog and make the connection of exactly who Arianna is. I realize there are those who are privy to this information and I thank you for your discretion.
So what is your fear? How would your life change? I would most likely need to change jobs if I didn’t get fired. Which most likely i would.
So I hope that those who have may have made the connection would respect my life and the way I’ve chosen to live it.